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Hilary Hartling's avatar

Thank you for the essentialism reminder -- I so needed it right now in the chaos of January. Best of luck on your essential project! :)

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Antonia Taylor's avatar

The chaos of January..how is this a thing! huge hugs, my friend and thank you so much xo

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Katie Robbins's avatar

We are our own worst enemies trying to cram so much in. I love that thinking about what is essential. Well done on being brave to put your energies somewhere big! That sounds super exciting! Xx

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Antonia Taylor's avatar

Oh Kate, that's so true. We put all this pressure on ourselves + create this huge false urgency all over the place. Thanks so much for your support. The irony is, I needed very little time to make this happen xo

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Marie A Bailey's avatar

Breaks are necessary for our sanity. I think there’s too much emphasis on trying to do it all and be it all, especially for women (why is that???). I know a few writers who gave up their blogs and/or social media because those things took precious time away from their writing (as in novels). I believe they are happier for it. Choices have to be made, and you need to make the choices that are best for you (emphasis on “you” 🙂).

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Antonia Taylor's avatar

Oh Marie, this spoke to me in so many ways. Why are we always efforting in this way?! The irony is I need a handful of hours to move this project forward and it's more like I had to ask myself for the permission for this. Thanks for this nourishing advice, so grateful. Hoping your writing's thriving xo

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Hilary Salzman's avatar

Refreshing honesty. Enjoy the break, we'll all still be here xx

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Antonia Taylor's avatar

Thank you! I wasn't sure whether to slide out quietly or own it. I'm glad I went for the latter. xo

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Emma Duke's avatar

The newsletter break makes so much sense - nice modelling. Can’t wait to hear what you get up to x

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Antonia Taylor's avatar

Thanks love! I'm really trying to step into that. Just earlier had a massive download on what that looks like on LinkedIn...but that's going to have to wait too. Hope you're good honey! xo

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Harriet Mason's avatar

With you on the over-thinking and over-communicating (just ask my children & my daughter's head of year when I pointed out the issues that come with a comms vacuum ;) We'll all still be here in a month or whenever you're able to come back. Enjoy throwing yourself into the project. Hx

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Antonia Taylor's avatar

Good spot on the over-everything! Thank you so much for this gorgeous encouragement Harriet. Hope you had a lovely solo retreat too x

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Louise Stevenson's avatar

Very much appreciate this reminder - I read the book a few years ago and seem to have forgotten it in all the busy-busy-busy. Just do one thing, one at a time. Best of luck with the project!

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