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So much of this struck a chord. I took time out at the weekend to sit with a planner and think, gaining clarity on the now-to-year-end months we’re entering, rather than rushing in. And finding space and taking stuff out is as important as the aims I’ve established for myself and my coaching and writing.

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Andrea, I'm so glad you did and in all honesty, I can see my leaky boundaries slipping into the time I'd set to do this tomorrow. More clarity, more space, less rushing. Thank you xo

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This September has felt very heavy, this past week especially and it feels like it’s lasted forever and not necessarily in a good way. Although I fear the intense bits have just squashed the life and energy out of the lighter bits 🤷🏼‍♀️ Off to Italy on Friday for the weekend so I’ll start again when I’m back 😊 Take care & congratulations on publication day!

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Oh love ❤️ Sounds like a lot, a lot. September was forever. And it wasn’t.Hope the lighter bits stay with you. Have a beautiful time away and everything will be waiting when you return 🌾

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Only just got round to reading this, such is the September overwhelm, but I could not relate more. I was exactly the same at the start of the month, fizzing with ideas and plans. Now, on the last day of the month, I've realised that it's ok to go a bit slower. Like you, I feel like I'm at the start of a new era (albeit at the other end of the school spectrum) as my youngest child started school this term. I know it won't really lead to loads more time for work but, symbolically, it feels like a big deal!

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I remember that Sarah and it’s a huge deal. Now I think about it I’m pretty sure I got sick when my youngest started…because you know, I stopped for a moment. There is more time. There will be more time. And October kind of feels more mellow and open 🍂

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SUCH a complicated month! 😂

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Or am I overthinking it?!😝

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😂 NEVER!

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Hard relate - both to everything around new thresholds (btw isn't it funny how whenever you consider cutting something out of a newsletter, it's the bit everyone responds to?) and to not giving future me enough credit...

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I know, they say kill your darlings, but sometimes you need to save them ;) Please give future you SO much credit Sophy. And let's start again in October. Love xo

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Maybe we should start the opposite campaign “SAVE OUR DARLINGS!”…

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Just what I needed to read this morning, thank you. I’m at a similar stage and everything you wrote very much clarified how it feels. I’m going to stick a post-it note in my diary about how taking stuff out is how you let more in. Will recommend your post in my next round-up 🌷

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Thank you Sue, I'm so grateful it resonated as even yesterday, I was thinking "Should I post it? Does this say enough?" I'm so glad it did. I read this morning about the need to "unbook" ourselves and I think that's my vibe for October. That's so kind - lovely to connect again xo

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Same Antonia. And I'm glad you posted it too.

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All of this! I can relate to all of it 😘♥️

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I mean, as summer girls, we should probably take the whole of September off, my love xo

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Such beautiful reminders, Antonia!

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